There are a lot of annoying and frustrating myths that get tossed
around about how men think and feel about sex. Most of them are based on
extremes and seem to come from a need to put something very complicated
in simple terms. We're not just looking to get off (we can take care of
that pretty easily ourselves, actually...). It's not just the thrill of
conquest (we assume that when women sleep with us it's because they
want to and not because they've been defeated, right?). It's
not just our biological imperative to make as many little versions of
ourselves as possible before we die (most of us our actually trying not to knock you up). So what the hell is it? What drives men toward sex and what does it mean to us when it happens?
I probably shouldn't do this, but screw it: In the spirit of
promoting better understanding between the sexes, here's six deep dark
secrets about how men really feel about sex.
1. We Don't Actually Want Sex All The Time
We just think we're supposed to want it all the time, and
unfortunately, this seems to be what women think too. It's
extraordinarily difficult for a man to say no to guaranteed sex, not
only because it's considered unmanly, but because women tend to assume
that something's "wrong." Nothing's wrong. Just like women, we only want
sex... when we wantit. The problem is that we're often terrible
at knowing the difference between sex we want and sex we don't want
until the awkward post-coital embrace. We really need to work on that
one.
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